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	<title>Comments on: Sometimes, a Writer Needs to Say &#8220;No.&#8221;</title>
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		<title>By: Carol Tice</title>
		<link>http://www.makealivingwriting.com/2010/03/16/sometimes-a-writer-needs-to-say-no/#comment-988</link>
		<dc:creator>Carol Tice</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Apr 2010 17:14:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I know it&#039;s scary when you &#039;feel poor&#039; to say no to gigs...but I think there&#039;s a concept where if you don&#039;t make space in your life for good-paying work, you can&#039;t attract it...and when you&#039;re busy with low-paying gigs, they take up ALL your time -- you have to work so many hours at a lower rate to earn well! Then you have no head space to think of high-paying markets you could query, big-company clients you could connect with...and so on. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I know it&#039;s scary when you &#039;feel poor&#039; to say no to gigs&#8230;but I think there&#039;s a concept where if you don&#039;t make space in your life for good-paying work, you can&#039;t attract it&#8230;and when you&#039;re busy with low-paying gigs, they take up ALL your time &#8212; you have to work so many hours at a lower rate to earn well! Then you have no head space to think of high-paying markets you could query, big-company clients you could connect with&#8230;and so on.</p>
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		<title>By: Robin</title>
		<link>http://www.makealivingwriting.com/2010/03/16/sometimes-a-writer-needs-to-say-no/#comment-971</link>
		<dc:creator>Robin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Apr 2010 05:05:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;No!&quot; is such a wonderfully magic word... I use it liberally. And my economy hasn&#039;t collapsed at all ;) </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&quot;No!&quot; is such a wonderfully magic word&#8230; I use it liberally. And my economy hasn&#039;t collapsed at all <img src='http://www.makealivingwriting.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Brandi</title>
		<link>http://www.makealivingwriting.com/2010/03/16/sometimes-a-writer-needs-to-say-no/#comment-223</link>
		<dc:creator>Brandi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Mar 2010 21:48:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Impeccable timing on this post! I was just hemming and hawing over a blog job I was offered. My intuition was telling me that this client would end up being a difficult one. After going back and forth, I finally decided it wasn&#039;t worth it and I deserved better. Then, I saw this post! What great validation for what I did! Thanks! </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Impeccable timing on this post! I was just hemming and hawing over a blog job I was offered. My intuition was telling me that this client would end up being a difficult one. After going back and forth, I finally decided it wasn&#039;t worth it and I deserved better. Then, I saw this post! What great validation for what I did! Thanks!</p>
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		<title>By: Carol Tice</title>
		<link>http://www.makealivingwriting.com/2010/03/16/sometimes-a-writer-needs-to-say-no/#comment-202</link>
		<dc:creator>Carol Tice</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Mar 2010 18:37:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I also had a prospective client want me to accept PayPal. I asked them to cover the fee on it, and never heard from them again. I was glad, as they had seemed a little on the flaky side, and this confirmed it. It&#039;s a convenience for them...still not sure why I should receive less as a result. But best is if you can build it into your initial quote and simply bid more... 
 
More on jobs I&#039;ve said no to &lt;a href=&quot;&quot; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;. 
 
Carol </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I also had a prospective client want me to accept PayPal. I asked them to cover the fee on it, and never heard from them again. I was glad, as they had seemed a little on the flaky side, and this confirmed it. It&#039;s a convenience for them&#8230;still not sure why I should receive less as a result. But best is if you can build it into your initial quote and simply bid more&#8230;</p>
<p>More on jobs I&#039;ve said no to <a href="" rel="nofollow">here</a>.</p>
<p>Carol</p>
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		<title>By: Star</title>
		<link>http://www.makealivingwriting.com/2010/03/16/sometimes-a-writer-needs-to-say-no/#comment-201</link>
		<dc:creator>Star</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Mar 2010 18:28:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Call me nuts--and I may be--but I fired a client who would only pay thru Pay Pal--we had no choice. So the stated fee was $10 less--PP commission. I wanted the money I was promised and asked could I but $10 more on the next pitch (which had been approved). No--I wasn&#039;t worth $10. So I quit. I know--it sounds stupid, but it wasn&#039;t fair and I felt disrespected. I also kicked a job where they contacted me for eight 400-word stories a month...for $250. Was I intrigued, they asked me. Not really. Pass. </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Call me nuts&#8211;and I may be&#8211;but I fired a client who would only pay thru Pay Pal&#8211;we had no choice. So the stated fee was $10 less&#8211;PP commission. I wanted the money I was promised and asked could I but $10 more on the next pitch (which had been approved). No&#8211;I wasn&#039;t worth $10. So I quit. I know&#8211;it sounds stupid, but it wasn&#039;t fair and I felt disrespected. I also kicked a job where they contacted me for eight 400-word stories a month&#8230;for $250. Was I intrigued, they asked me. Not really. Pass.</p>
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		<title>By: Anne Wayman - About</title>
		<link>http://www.makealivingwriting.com/2010/03/16/sometimes-a-writer-needs-to-say-no/#comment-186</link>
		<dc:creator>Anne Wayman - About</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Mar 2010 18:51:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;No!&quot; is such a wonderfully magic word... I use it liberally. And my economy hasn&#039;t collapsed at all ;) </description>
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		<title>By: Lindsay Woolman</title>
		<link>http://www.makealivingwriting.com/2010/03/16/sometimes-a-writer-needs-to-say-no/#comment-167</link>
		<dc:creator>Lindsay Woolman</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Mar 2010 21:26:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Woohoo! Congrats to that mentee for a $750 assignment. This is really great advice and what a wonderful thing to point out. Very inspiring post!  
 
Lindsay </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Woohoo! Congrats to that mentee for a $750 assignment. This is really great advice and what a wonderful thing to point out. Very inspiring post! </p>
<p>Lindsay</p>
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		<title>By: Carol Tice</title>
		<link>http://www.makealivingwriting.com/2010/03/16/sometimes-a-writer-needs-to-say-no/#comment-163</link>
		<dc:creator>Carol Tice</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Mar 2010 20:23:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>RIGHT ON, Brian! 
 
Thanks for leaving your success story to inspire others. 
 
Carol </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>RIGHT ON, Brian!</p>
<p>Thanks for leaving your success story to inspire others.</p>
<p>Carol</p>
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		<title>By: Brian V. Hunt</title>
		<link>http://www.makealivingwriting.com/2010/03/16/sometimes-a-writer-needs-to-say-no/#comment-162</link>
		<dc:creator>Brian V. Hunt</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Mar 2010 20:17:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Carol, 
 
True words. I just sent the paperwork for signature on an $1100 job rewriting two case studies. I imagine the job will take about ten hours max. 
 
Brian </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Carol,</p>
<p>True words. I just sent the paperwork for signature on an $1100 job rewriting two case studies. I imagine the job will take about ten hours max.</p>
<p>Brian</p>
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